You could also introduce sex toys, role play, dress up, or change the scenery. At the beginning of a relationship, couples enjoy deep, sexy kissing, and they touch each other in arousing ways, says Needle. But as a relationship matures, that lovey-dovey behavior can take a backseat to chores and mundane activities. Channel your inner teenager and kiss, hug, and snuggle your partner like you did when you first met.
Doing so will help keep your marriage sexually alive. Still feeling stuck in a rut? Consider seeing a certified sex therapist. For a lot of people, it reminds them of a time when the only place for private sex was in their car," Jenkins Hall says. Sound fun to you? Wondering how to do it? Try laying down horizontally on the bed, facing the ceiling, with your head just barely hanging over the side. Then, your partner can meet your face with their genitalia, giving you the freedom to lick, suck, tease, and all the like.
An activity that brings a new element to your sex life? Games, especially ones that include spontaneity like dice or playing cards, says Jenkins Hall.
Odds are you've known your significant other for quite a while at this point—so why not get to know someone else for a change? Try spicing up your sex life with a bit of role play, Brito suggests.
If you're not sure where to begin, Brito says a romantic dinner is a perfect for newbies. It brings some spice back," she explains, since anticipation will build as you prepare to "meet" each other. Do what you would to "get ready" for a date, like putting on an outfit that makes you feel confident, and tell your partner to "pick you up" at a certain time, Brito suggests.
Then, when you're ready to head home, you can carry on with the charade and pretend you're sleeping together for the first time, too. Very hot! Why sit on the sidelines of your own sex life when you could be coaching the team, right?
All sex is a learning experience. A simple: 'Does that feel good? Rather than rushing into intercourse, Sells advocates building more excitement with dirty talk. She also suggests watching porn together, or even making your own porn. Making your own porn doesn't require a whole bunch of equipment—you could try having sex in front of a mirror, or using your smartphone to film yourselves.
Finally, try to take pressure off the big O, which isn't easy, since we're conditioned to believe that all penetrative sex sessions should end with a bang.
Instead of making orgasm the end-all-be-all of penetration, she suggests focus on pleasure. If you have an orgasm or a few , great. If not, you still had a wonderful time. Aftercare is an essential part of sex. That made me more confident with my man. Hi,just something I happen to stumble across one evening….. Hi Sean! Will you please explain?
Humiliation is something you need to be very careful with. So before you try it out, make sure to talk to your man about it to see how he feels about it.
Now this is a good, balanced article! I like it being about us as well as him and you have touched on many good points. My lover and I share and explore our fantasies, enjoy toys, talk dirty, role play, give each other good oral sex…everything.
My concern is that, eventually, it will all have been explored, done and over. Does familiarity breed contempt? Does sex get less important to certain people, particularly as they age?
For some people, sex gets less important as they age, while for others it becomes more important. It simply depends on you and your partner and both of your preferences. Hi Sean!! If they go well, then just proceed from there.
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I started sexting my husband of 13 years and it has made a difference. Instead of just words I started to send him sexy pics of me. This has truly built anticipation and now we watch porn together instead of him by himself. That was a big problem for me, I started to feel like I was not good enough. Now because of your advice things have gotten super spicy!! Love it! Hi Sean, my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and i love your tips and they work great. But now i need some advice on something else.
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I think hes getting tired of me an dont want to tell me, hes on dating sites an posting single, an putting his dick pictures on there. An he says hes loves me an nobody else an he dont want nobody else but hes on dating sites talking to other girls on there an stuff, an watches porn as soon as in not n the same room as him or especially going to work or somewhere. He quit going places with me, an quit doing anything together. We go to work an back to house an look at four walls.
Barely even talk to each other anymore. An im tried everything i no to do an dont no what else could make this better i even tried loosing weight because hes looking an talking to you skinny whores an bitches. So i thought it would help but i dont no what else to do. I want to know how to get my husband to be more dominant. I want rough sex from time to time. I have ask him to spank me and he has did a pop here and there, but I want some good dirty talk, spankings and make me want it bad!
He seems to be vanilla. He also seems to want me to be the dominate one. I want him to take the lead and have some really good roughest. Tell me how to really get him to take the lead and give me my fantasys. Talk to him. One morning my boyfriend woke me up before getting ready for work as he always does to cuddle.
He thought that was amazing that I asked him that and bragged to his boss and coworkers about me. Now every so often not all the time I ask the same question and get him a good morning blowjob. This man can not get enough of me and I never have to worry about him even looking at another woman. He showers me in love and affection and does nice thing all the time for me.
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